Untrust and Over Protecting

Couple Problem:

I am 27 years old. I have a boyfriend. He obligate me to contact him over a length of time, do not allow me ride in friend(actually man)'s car, and do not allow me to apply other jobs. At the end of office hours, he obligate me to contact him before I go home. He prohibit me to contact my exboyfriend's friends. Even, he ever asked me about my saving. He denounce me that I am financing my exboyfriend. And too many foolish asking from him.

I hesitate about our future relationship, please advice me.

Counselor Advice:

He come in sight do not trust you. Please ask your self first, are you honest? If you oftenly lie, you have to change your self to be honest. But, if you are a honest woman, he will see that you are honest by given time. If he still untrust you, you have to understand that it is hard to build relationship with untrust attitude. Both of you must trust each other.